Dear readers, lately I’ve been swamped with consulting work and management coaching. Even more importantly, I’ve become a father and I want to devote as much of my free time as possible to my son. Consequently, I’m taking a little break from blogging. In the meantime, please enjoy any of the 250+ articles from the archive. And if you have any questions for me, don’t hesitate to ask.
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Psychological research shows that with storytelling, we make sense of our identities. We put different stories from our life into a narrative, which enables us to understand our lives as a coherent whole. And coherence gives meaning to life. The coherent story you’re telling yourself about your life is called the “narrative identity”. Like every good story, the “narrative identity” also has positive and negative events that determine the plot, challenges that need to be overcome, people who help and block efforts, and the denouement of some form of pain, conflict and struggle. Even more importantly, your life narrative is not a sum of everything that happened to you in the past. You tend to focus on a few extraordinary events, positive or negative ones. These are the experiences that shape your personality the most.